INTJ is one of the personality types. People with an INTJ personality type tend to be confident, analytical and ambitious in their behavior.

Having said that, the context of this post is a bit different. It is not about having an INTJ personality. It is with the context whether you like crowds or want to stay in a calm place with less to no noise.

But in my experience what matters is the age. It is the age that actually defines whether a crowd fills you with energy or you want peace to gather that energy.

When we are young we enjoy the loud music. Be it a party or gathering we like hustle and bustle. But as we grow old, let’s say turn 40 then those gatherings and loud noise do not amuse much.

We want to stay in more calm places, where we can talk and listen to each other. Sit and relax. Do the mind mapping. Have a meaningful discussion.

Also the other side is not staying up till late. Late evening or late night parties become a no. You want to maintain that discipline. You want to come home on time. Have your dinner on time. Go to bed early.

Because you want to start the other day with a purpose. The day is planned in advance.

It all boils down to age. Also the likes, wants and needs change with time.